I always seem to struggle with the question, “to take the photo or not,” in certain situations. I love to paint the picture, tell the story, and report the news, but at times the appropriate time to take the photo is not clear.
I ponder, do I bow my head when the wedding officiant asks for all to participate? Or do I focus my lens on the couple and capture the moment when they are praying together? I admit that most times, I do a quick nod and then move quickly to shoot the special moment, reminding myself that I am working the event.
I wonder if I should take the photograph of the homeless person seated and burrowed in his or her possessions? Do I take the shot of those grieving at a funeral for a loved one? Do I take the photograph of a disabled elderly person to show the effects of dementia?
Recently, I attended the Annual Fredericksburg National Cemetery Illumination. It was an awesome view to see the hillside gravesites lit in their full masses. It was overwhelming to see the full measure of sacrifice the soldiers gave in order for me to experience freedom. Soon, I found myself asking the question again, “to take the photo or not.” I knew this was an important story to share and decided to take the shot.
It is not an easy question to ask myself. Sometimes, believe it or not, I elect not to take the shot. But I continue to ask this simple question because it keeps me grounded and reminds me to view each event as a privilege to photograph and to be respectful in my photography.
I am thankful each day for the men and women that have wholly given themselves so that I may live and pursue my dreams in this country. I am grateful for those who serve today and are willing to protect us all on this Memorial Day.
Take lots of pictures- Cheryl